Guidance at every step
Arranging a funeral can feel overwhelming, particularly when there are decisions to make in a short space of time.
I will guide you through each stage, explain what happens next and create a ceremony that reflects the person you knew. You will have the opportunity to review it and make any changes before it is finalised.
“One ceremony, one chance. It has to be right.”
Getting started and telling their story
Getting started
Our first conversation
We will begin with a telephone conversation so I can introduce myself, hear a little about the person who has died and arrange a convenient time for us to meet.
You do not need to have everything decided before we speak.
Telling their story
Meeting with you
We can meet in person or by video call, depending on what works best for you. I will listen to your memories and ask questions about the person's life.
We can also talk through ideas for music, readings, family contributions and any religious or spiritual elements you would like included.
There is no need to prepare a formal account of their life. Photographs, notes, dates and stories can all help, but we can work through everything together.
Preparing your ceremony
Bringing it together
Writing the ceremony
After our meeting, I will bring your memories and choices together to create a personal ceremony. I will write the tribute with care, making sure it sounds natural and reflects the person you knew.
You will have the opportunity to check the factual details and make changes before the ceremony is finalised.
Before the service
Preparing for the day
I will liaise with the funeral director and anyone taking part in the service. I will confirm the running order, music, readings and practical arrangements so that everyone knows what to expect.
On the day and afterwards
The ceremony
On the day
I will arrive in good time, speak with the funeral director and check that everything is ready. I will lead the ceremony calmly and support family members or friends who have chosen to speak.
A copy to keep
Afterwards
Following the ceremony, I can provide you with a copy of the final words to keep.
You do not have to work everything out alone
If you are unsure about any part of the ceremony, I can offer ideas and help you make choices without placing pressure on you. Everything will be approached with care for what matters most to your family.
Talk to Rachel